Amr Adeeb : Hello and welcome Dr Shahrour.
Dr Shahrour : Good evening and welcome.
Amr Adeeb : Welcome Sir.
Dr Shahrour : Hello and welcome.
Amr Adeeb : Happy to have you with us today.
Dr Shahrour : Thank you, Allah's willing.
Amr Adeeb : We have Sheikh Khaled El Gendi
here as well.
Dr Shahrour : Yes
Amr Adeeb : May be you don't see him on the
screen.
Dr Shahrour : No I don't see him.
Amr Adeeb : we have Sheikh Khaled El Gendi
also here.
Dr Shahrour : Welcome to him.
Amr Adeeb : We need you to explain to us your
interpretation and views on the verse (what your right
hands may posses).
Amr Adeeb : A right hand possession I mean.
Dr Shahrour : Yes .. Yes, We have here two
cases of religiously allowed sexual relations .. First
case is the marriage, the second is a right hand possession,
Marriage is not a right hand possession and vis-a
vis. In both cases sexual intercourse is allowed (halal).
Marriage is a kind relationship and the family ie
when a man marries a woman seeking a joint living,
to make family, meaning to stay together forever,
having children this woman is called a wife. A right
hand possession is the case that does not apply to
all what I have just mentioned which are the conditions
of marriage; this is a right hand possession.
4 wives allowed and an unlimited number of right hand
possessions. Lord of mankind didn't say in the Qur'an
that a right hand possession is slavery. In the Qur'an
slavery was mentioned as in freeing slaves. However,
historically people believed that a right hand possession
is the slavery. A right hand possession is mentioned
and explained 13 times in Allah's book as well as
marriage, not only marriage but also right hand possession
has been explained in the book of Allah.
Suppose that a man reaches adolescent in the age of
15 and marries in the age of 25. There are young men
having a real sexual problem during those 10 years
difference, the Islamic scholars didn't study and
resolve this problem as it does exist,for example,
the traveller's marriage and right hand possession
since it doesn't apply to joint living, a right hand
possession it is and not a marriage. Secondly, the
marriage for pleasure is a case of right hand possession.
Third, traveller's marriage is a right hand possession.
All these cases are a right hand possession, since
the human brain is crafty and wants to solve an existing
problem which the scholars could not, The human brain
invented the traveller's marriage, the friend marriage
and the holiday marriage, there are many forms yet
to be invented in the future.
Amr Adeeb : Mr Shahrour, suppose I have a 15-16
years old kid and I'm worried he commits adultery?
Dr Shahrour : I'm telling you that there is
an existing sexual problem during 10 years of a man's
life.
Sheikh Khaled : Do you believe that a right
hand possession is still exists nowadays?
Dr Shahrour : Of course, no doubt about it
Dr Shahrour : For example, in Europe, a man
lives with a woman in free will, facing people and
neighbours, they have a joint living and everybody
knows including their families
Dr Shahrour : This is a 100% allowed (halal)
and is a right hand possession
Sheikh Khaled : What is adultery then?
Dr Shahrour : I'm telling you it's a right
hand possession because it has been publicly declared
Dr Shahrour : Did the prophet's companions
(Sahaba) have a registered marriage contracts?
Sheikh Khaled : If the ruler permits it...
Dr Shahrour : This is the civil law now you're
talking about, I'm talking about the case not the
law, It's not about the law, I'm talking about the
sexual relation in bed.
Sheikh Khaled : Taking bank interest was allowed
in the beginning of Islam but not now, clear? Drinking
alcohol was allowed in the beginning of Islam but
not now.
Dr Shahrour : Sir, I'm talking about two cases,
the first is a right hand possession and the second
is marriage?
Sheikh Khaled : Answer the question please
sir, what is adultery?
Sheikh Khaled : Define adultery?
Amr Adeeb : Let's first get your definition
of a right hand possession.
Dr Shahrour : A right hand possession is a
case that doesn't apply to the conditions of marriage
and is religiously allowed relationship with a free
will.
Amr Adeeb : Like what you mean?
Dr Shahrour : Allah's prophet explained this
in Bukhary
Sheikh Khaled : Where? What did he say?
Dr Shahrour : Whomever a man and a woman agreed
they live together for 3 nights, if they decide to
carry on so be it, if they decide to break up so be
it. Open Bukhary and read it.
Sheikh Khaled : Wasn't this the marriage for
pleasure?
Dr Shahrour : It's in the Bukhary.
Sheikh Khaled : I know it's in the Bukhary,
isn't this the marriage for pleasure?
Dr Shahrour : Did the prophet of Allah show
a third form of marriage?
Sheikh Khaled : This is the marriage for pleasure
sir.
Dr Shahrour : Did the prophet of Allah show
a third form?
Sheikh Khaled : Ok please
Dr Shahrour : Did the prophet of Allah show
a third form? My question is clear; in Allah's book
there is marriage and a right hand possession.
Sheikh Khaled : The prophet (PBAH) permitted
taking pleasure and then forbid it, also mentioned
in the Bukhary and the Hadith.
Dr Shahrour : Why did he allow taking pleasure?
Sheikh Khaled : For military reasons, anything,
what's important now is there is an abrogation in
the share'a low.
Dr Shahrour : There is abrogate and abrogated
which I don't believe in.
Sheikh Khaled : It's up to you.
Amr Adeeb : Dr shahrour please.
Dr Shahrour : The abrogate and abrogated don't
exist in the first place.
Amr Adeeb : Let's go logically.
Amr Adeeb : Again, let me ask you a simple
question, me as a man, what is my right hand possession,
is she my servant?
Dr Shahrour : I'll tell you, traveller marriage
in Saudi is not a marriage at all.
Sheikh Khaled : What is the traveller marriage?
Dr Shahrour : It's when the man visits the
woman upon her request, It's when the man visits the
woman upon her request, he's not responsible for either
her or the children's expenses, he just gives them
his name. This is not a marriage it's a right hand
possession.
Sheikh Khaled : You're deluded sir.
Dr Shahrour : This is a right hand possession;
this is a right hand possession
Amr Adeeb : Do you mean that any man and a
woman decide to have a sexual relationship; this is
called a right hand possession?
Dr Shahrour : Yes, willingly and according
to the traditions.
Amr Adeeb : Adultery is by free will, does
any one force an adulteress woman?
Dr Shahrour : Adultery is when more than one
man is involved, this called adultery or when a married
woman does it.
Sheikh Khaled : Do you mean when he pays her?
What if it was for free?
Dr Shahrour : Besides, Adultery needs four
witnesses to prove it.
Sheikh Khaled : No, no, no, we're not talking
about proving it, what is adultery?
Amr Adeeb : Dr Shahrour, lets go step by step
please, for example, I met my next-door girl, and
decided to have a sexual relationship
Dr Shahrour : If the society doesn't forbid
it there is no adultery in this.
Sheikh Khaled : This is getting serious now.
Allah! Allah! Allah! . Go brother may Allah bless
your parents. Meaning if the society forbids this
the story is over?
Dr Shahrour : Sir, it's not up to you or me,
a right hand possession is a free will case. Let me
tell you about the Islamic scholars, they always like
using force; sadly, wherever using force exists they
are there, a right hand possession to them is the
slavery, a woman is taken to slavery by force, goes
to slavery market by force, gets shown up by force,
get bought by force, the buyer takes her home and
sleeps with her by force, the scholars believe that
after 5 times of forcing, it becomes OK (halal). On
the other hand if a man and an unmarried woman get
willingly together they say it's forbidden!!
Amr Adeeb : Again Dr shahrour, if a man and
a woman...
Dr Shahrour : To Islamic scholars forcing is
the right form.
Amr Adeeb : Beautiful, lets explain to the
people. A right hand possession is when a man and
a woman agreed to have a sexual relationship.
Dr Shahrour : Yes if she wasn't married
Amr Adeeb : Yes if she wasn't married!
Dr Shahrour : Of course
Amr Adeeb : Halal (allowed)!
Dr Shahrour : Of course, of course, of course,
of course
Sheikh Khaled : What about her father?
Dr Shahrour : Of course, It's down to the traditions.
In France if the society, their families, she and
him all know, the relation is ok, the relation is
ok.
Amr Adeeb : Suppose it's an Arabic country
if their families know and ok with them having a relation
without a what's called a religious marriage?
Dr Shahrour : It's not allowed only in two
cases, first one if she was married, second one if
it's publicly ie if they were in the garden.
Amr Adeeb : He's happy
Sheikh Khaled : And her father?
Dr Shahrour : I told you if the society knows
it's ok, this is now a social case. For example, it's
ok in Europe.
Sheikh Khaled : I'm really happy, say again,
carry on.
Amr Adeeb : No sir, let Europe aside, I'm talking
about Islam and Muslims.
Dr Shahrour : You're talking about Arabs not
Islam, Arabic traditions not Islam.
Amr Adeeb : I'm talking about Islamic society,
never mind Arabs.
Dr Shahrour : Now you're talking about the
Arabic society.
Amr Adeeb : No I'm asking about the Islamic
society.
Dr Shahrour : In the Islamic society, Whomever
a man or a woman agreed together, without numerous
they stay for 3 nights, if she wasn't married its
OK. Full stop, that's it.
Amr Adeeb : This is in addition to the 4 wives?
Dr Shahrour : What is the relation here?
Amr Adeeb : In addition to the 4 wives!
Dr Shahrour : Even if it's a 100, Abdul Rahman
Bin Ouf had 90 right hand possessions, 90 he had.
Amr Adeeb : You mean it's unlimited.
Dr Shahrour : Of course It's open, but not
more than one man.
Amr Adeeb : Not more than one man?
Dr Shahrour : Yes, Not more than one man
Amr Adeeb : No pregnancy you mean?
Dr Shahrour : No, no numerous, I mean he shoud
not share her with a friend.
Sheikh Khaled : Again Dr Shahrour, a right
hand possession between a man and a woman without
any payments involved is ok.
Dr Shahrour : You mean without contract? The
contract is a social tradition.
Sheikh Khaled : Social tradition?
Dr Shahrour : Of course, it's a civil low now.
Sheikh Khaled : If she wrote consent that she
is ok with that, it's nobody's problem!!
Dr Shahrour : Nobody has any business with
it.
Amr Adeeb : And is not forbidden !
Dr Shahrour : Absolutely
Amr Adeeb : Can I ask you something sir.
Dr Shahrour : Yes
Amr Adeeb : Your references, give me Qur'an
and Sunna.
Dr Shahrour : Adultery needs 4 witnesses and
Qur'an says if you gave them their due dowers and
desire chastity, not lewdness, nor secret intrigues.
Sheikh Khaled : Dr shahrour, this is to prove
adultery, 4 witnesses are needed when we need to prove
adultery, and we don't want to prove it now. I'm asking
what is adultery? So that we learn.
Dr Shahrour : Adultery is, if it was a married
woman, or having sex publicly.
Sheikh Khaled : But in a house is not adultery?
Dr Shahrour : If with conformity and with unmarried
woman
Sheikh Khaled : Student, Employed anything?
Dr Shahrour : Not married has nothing to do
with her job, am I clear
Sheikh Khaled : Clear yes
Dr Shahrour : If she were married it's fornication
therefore adultery.
Sheikh Khaled : Payable or for free?
Dr Shahrour : It's up to them, if he clears
her she is his right hand possession, if she clears
him he is her right hand possession.
Sheikh Khaled : What if there was pregnancy?
Dr Shahrour : According to what was agreed,
just like the traveller's marriage in Saudi.
Sheikh Khaled : We're talking about adultery.
Dr Shahrour : I've been telling you this; right
hand possession is not marriage.
Sheikh Khaled : Our professor. What happens
if there was pregnancy out of adultery? In case the
relationship is behind closed doors, nobody is watching
and the rest of the conditions you told us do not
apply.
Dr Shahrour : Yes, it's her fault then.
Sheikh Khaled : Then what?
Dr Shahrour : It's her fault that she agreed
to that.
Sheikh Khaled : What do we tell her now; throw
away your baby in the basket?
Dr Shahrour : It's her fault I'm saying, her
fault. I'm telling you that 80% of the relationships
on earth are allowed (halal).
Amr Adeeb : 80%? Question again, talk to me
from Qur'an and Sunna…
Dr Shahrour : It's all from Qur'an I'm telling
you
Dr Shahrour : When ye give them their due dowers
(wages), and desire chastity not lewdness, nor secret
intrigues. (If any of you have not the means wherewith
to wed free believing women, they may wed believing
girls from among those whom your right hands posses)
Sheikh Khaled : What does it mean (nor secret
intrigues) Dr Shahrour?
Dr Shahrour : This case refers to the right
hand possession. You have two cases there shouldn't
be clear fornication because the right hand possession
is for men and women.
Sheikh Khaled : What does it mean (nor secret
intrigues) Dr Shahrour?
Dr Shahrour : Yes means that she is not his
friend, meaning that he should respect her as well,
Which makes a relationship between a man and a woman
different from marriage, the wife is a relationship
and a family, the wife is a relationship and a family,
the conditions that don't apply to this, is the right
hand possession. Clear, perfectly clear.
Amr Adeeb : Dr Shahrour, thank you.
Dr Shahrour : You're welcome.